Life is perpetual change. Change can bring anxiety and fear, but it can also endow us with new horizons. Sometimes though, even if we are receptive to change, we are uncertain how to navigate the virgin landscape.
Modern feminism is evolving for each generation. Initially, women were fighting to have careers. The first professional women felt in order to prove themselves in the workplace they had to completely commit. Many did not consider part-time options because they needed to show their male counterparts they had equal ambition.
This current phase of feminism still has progressives battling for equal pay, but it also has people opting to lean back. While still others desire to climb the ranks. Since staying at home is no longer an obligation, some moms feel forced to justify their decision. This tension has led to the so-called mommy wars.
It is time for a new approach. Our pride must come from our individuality. For the first time in human history, women can be CEOs or stay at home or work part-time or be a professional student. Instead of criticizing our sisterhood for its diversity, it is time to applaud our ability to choose.
To me, modern feminism means that society cannot dictate my life. I am equipped with the education and opportunity to create my own way.
I think that is what everyone wants. The ability to determine their own destiny.
Happy trails!
K